Sawyer Costa was a fierce friend, loved animals and was âthe biggest firecrackerâ who shared a family passion for hockey.
Thatâs how her mother, Kim Costa, said sheâll remember the Laramie, Wyoming, 10-year-old who âwas just full of life and afraid of nothing.â
Sawyer died Saturday after she was taken off life support a week after a devastating collision with a truck while selling lemonade with her best friend, Kim Costa told Cowboy State Daily on Monday.
Sawyer suffered a traumatic brain injury May 24 when she was hit by a truck while crossing a road near the local golf course, her mother said. She was taken to Childrenâs Hospital in Denver, but after a week with no sign of brain activity, she was taken off life support.
âI would definitely say weâre in shock right now,â Costa said. âI donât know how weâre going to do without her, weâre just numb.â
Costa said she doesnât know much about the accident, only that her daughter was on foot crossing a residential street when the truck hit her.
âI donât know if there were cars parked on the side and she couldnât see the truck, but she very religiously looked both ways usually,â she said. âBut I donât know if she did this time. I also donât know if the truck was going too fast or what.â
Wyoming Highway Patrol Lt. Brock Weitzel said there is an active investigation into the incident, but that he couldnât share any information until thatâs been completed.
Family âStunnedâ
The loss of Sawyer is the latest blow for the Costa family after her father, and Kimâs husband, Brett, was paralyzed from the rib cage down in a rollover crash 15 months ago.
Brett had also coached Sawyer before, and the whole family was active with the local club, the Outlaws.Â
Itâs Sawyerâs spunk and positive attitude that defined her, Costa said.
âShe was the biggest firecracker. Everybody loved her â and you had your hands full with her,â said her mother. âShe played co-ed hockey, and even though the boys were a foot and a half taller, she was fearless.
âShe could suplex her bigger brother, and heâs 13. Sheâs just something, man, so strong and not afraid of her brothers. Sheâll take them all on.â
Costa said the reality of losing her daughter hasnât set in yet, and one of the most difficult things sheâs had to do in the days since Sawyer died was explain it to her siblings, especially her younger brothers, ages 7 and 3.
âWe just explained that every brain injury is different,â she said. âSometimes itâs something where you canât talk, and sometimes itâs physical where you canât move like you used to.
âAnd then sometimes your brain just never wakes up.â
Loved Hockey
Sawyer was âa great little hockey player, a leader and a friend,â said family friend and hockey club board member Chelsea Janzen. âYou have to have a pretty thick skin and be unafraid, and Sawyer really exemplified that.â
Thatâs why the Laramie Amateur Hockey Club feels Sawyerâs loss so intensely, said President Kristine Ninnemann.
âIt just knocks the wind out of you,â she told Cowboy State Daily. âItâs so sad, and for it to happen just almost a year after Brettâs accident, itâs just unfair.â
Sawyer not only loved playing on a co-ed team with boys, she also tried out and made an all-girls travel team called the Rocky Mountain Sparks, Ninnemann said.
The hockey club started a GoFundMe campaign for the Costa family, which was at about $26,000 as of Monday.
Kristineâs husband, Jim Ninnemann, coached Sawyer and her U10 team, and was emotional talking about the impact the small 10-year-old with a huge personality had on him and her teammates.
âShe was smart, sweet, fearless and spunky â tenacious,â he said. âAlways a joy and a pleasure to have around, a great kid.â
On the ice, Sawyer played forward âall overâ and didnât hesitate to get into the middle of the action.Â
âShe never backed down,â Jim Ninnemann said. âSheâd go in there with boys twice as tall as her, that was her thing. Just go after it. And she was a very good player, very good skills.â
Most of all, the coach said heâll miss âher smile, her big smile and her big heart.â
Sawyer wore No. 6 playing for the Outlaws, and she will be the last, he said.
âWeâll retire the number this year for the program,â he said with a breaking voice.
âHave An Ounce Of The Life That She Hadâ
The support of their extended hockey family feels like an extension of their own, first when her husband had his crash and again with Sawyer, Kim Costa said.Â
âThe hockey community is something like youâve never seen before,â she said. âYouâre always together, and Sawyer actually made the two teams last year, and I never saw her happier.â
While the loss is crushing for her family and friends, Costa said she wants Sawyerâs legacy to be one of hope and happiness.
âShe just had such joy for life, and it didnât matter how bad things were, she was happy,â she said. âBecause thatâs who she is. Sawyer was so good in finding the positive in anything.
âPeople should just have an ounce of the love of life that she had, because lifeâs just too short not to, and you never know when itâs going to be gone.â
Greg Johnson can be reached at greg@cowboystatedaily.com.