Ned LeDoux never considered himself a singer, despite all the times he played drums alongside his dad, country music star Chris LeDoux.
âI was the drummer,â he told Cowboy State Daily. âThat was my job. And so I just wanted to be the best drummer I could be for him and the band. Singing never even crossed my mind because he was the singer.â
Now 20 years after his father Chris LeDouxâs death at just 56, Ned is looking back at a road thatâs been full of surprises.Â
From the discovery that he was not just a drummer after all, but a pretty darn good singer-songwriter, to the more recent surprise song from his father hiding on a shelf for almost 20 years, âOne Hand in the Rigginâ.âÂ
Written by his friend Brenn Hill, that never-before-released song allowed Ned LeDoux to create a poignant duet across time with his father.
âItâs crazy to think itâs been 20 years,â LeDoux told Cowboy State Daily. âBut me and my family, weâre all very spiritual, and we know that heâs still with us, every day, every step along the way. And weâll see him again, down the road.â
LeDoux sings about that idea a little bit in a song that will be on his upcoming album, out April 4, called âReal as I believe.â
âItâs a song I didnât write, but itâs definitely very personal,â LeDoux said. âItâs just about believing in where we go when weâre done on this earth. Itâs pretty powerful, and Iâve had a lot of really good compliments about it.â
LeDoux canât think of a more fitting tribute to his fatherâs life than what heâs been doing the last 20 years, living life to the fullest, and writing and singing about it in songs. Thatâs why every one of his albums to date includes one of his fatherâs songs, alongside his own original work.
For the last 14 years, LeDoux has also appeared at Chris LeDoux days in Kaycee, a Wyoming Fatherâs Day weekend tradition. This year will be special, LeDoux told Cowboy State Daily, and it will also be the last, June 13-14.
âMom just kind of asked all of us like, âWhat do you think we just kind of go out with a big bang,ââ LeDoux told Cowboy State Daily. âAnd we didnât want to just have it fade away, have it just kind of dwindle off. So we thought that would be a great way to go out, with a bang.â
It All Started With A Little Idea
One thing LeDoux is particularly excited about for the Chris LeDoux Days finale this year is the appearance of country music band Sawyer Brown.Â
âWeâve been trying to get that band for the last three, maybe four years now, and we finally got them,â LeDoux said. âSo itâs gonna be Sawyer Brown, then myself, and then Kip Attaway is going to open up the show.â
LeDoux hopes to see a great turnout for Chris LeDoux Days and the rodeo that goes along with it.
âThatâs always got a great turnout,â LeDoux said. âAnd, who knows, maybe down the road, weâll come up with something else. I donât know, but I think this will be a good way to go out with a boom.â
Chris LeDoux days started organically after his father died, LeDoux recalled.
âThereâs this little piece of land in Kaycee that my parents owned,â he said. âAnd while my dad was still around they thought, well, maybe we could just turn it into a little park. Put some picnic tables in there, maybe a couple of grills, do some landscape stuff, to where people coming off of I-25 could pull off and have a little break and let the kids run around.â
After his father died, that idea lived on. But the family also had a bronze sculpture of Chris LeDoux, and the middle of the park they had created seemed a fitting place for it.Â
âMeadow Acres Landscaping and Greenery donated a lot of stuff for that, from flowers and rocks and mulch,â LeDoux said. âAnd the whole family pitched in and helped put this park together.â
Having created this nice green space, the family decided to have a big unveiling to share it with everyone.Â
âWe had a few bands come in and we had bareback and bronc riding going on,â LeDoux said. âAnd like the governor was there, and some other people went up and gave a speech. My mom gave a great speech.â
It was so much fun, and went off so well, the family decided it should be a thing every year. Invite Wyoming and the world down to Kaycee, Wyoming, to enjoy the little park they had made.Â
âIt just really built up to be something that I think folks in Wyoming and people all around the country really looked forward to,â LeDoux said. âI even met a lady there five years ago who was from England. She had this really thick accent and I said, âDid you come here just for this?â And she told me they planned their vacation around it.â
LeDoux said there may yet be surprises for the event this year, to ensure it goes out with a bang, as the family plans.
Learning To Sing
Singing and writing songs wasnât something that ever came natural to LeDoux.Â
âI had played drums for most of my life, over 30 years,â he said. âBut after dad passed away, I joined with a different band.â
Hanging out with them afterward at a hotel, one of the singers decided to take a break.
âHe handed me his guitar and says, âHey man, why donât you play one of your dadâs songs?ââ
LeDoux was floored. He realized he didnât even know for sure if he could sing.Â
âListen, Iâll hold your guitar for you,â he said. âBut I donât sing at all.â
That answer didnât satisfy the guitar man, though.
âWhen he came back, he grabbed the guitar and goes, âWell do you know the words this song?ââ
LeDoux thought about that and realized that he did know the words to all of his dadâs songs, even if heâd never tried to sing them.
The whole thing awakened a little curiosity.Â
âI remember driving home Sunday afternoon and thinking about how fun it would be to just learn two or three of his songs, whether they were good or not,â LeDoux said. âAnd then if Iâm sitting around a cheap motel room or a campfire or just to go sit on my front porch with a tall glass of iced tea and just sing to the birds.â
LeDoux started off singing in secret in his basement.Â
âI didnât really want to sing in front of anybody,â he said. âI just kind of sang to the chair in the corner and the pictures on the wall.â
Before too long, he had learned way more than two or three songs. He had 15 to 20 of them.Â
Then he took the next step. During breaks, heâd go up on stage to sing a couple of songs.
âIâd be like, âWell, donât put any lights on me,ââ LeDoux said. âIâm just going to see if I can do this.â
Eventually, it turned into solo gigs at little dive bars. That was fun, but it all just kept getting bigger and bigger, until it became the full-blown musical career that it is today.
Honoring His Dad Is All About Celebrating Life
Chris LeDoux days has always been a celebration of life, LeDoux said.
The longevity of the event, and the fact that 20 years later people are still talking about his dad never ceases to amaze him.
âIâve never heard anybody say a bad word about him,â LeDoux said. âHe was just that kind of a guy. And we lost him at the age of 56, but just thinking of all his achievements and accomplishments, in such a short amount of time. It would probably take most people like two or three lifetimes.â
Those achievements included high school rodeo champ, college rodeo champ, and 1976 bareback champion of the world.Â
âThen all the success that came in music,â LeDoux said. âI just recently put all of his vinyl records on display in my house, and it pretty much takes up the whole wall. He had so many albums that he put out.â
Despite being independent for most of that career, Chris LeDoux had sold more than six million records as of 2007. He had a gold and a platinum album certification from the Recording Industry Association of America, and was nominated for a Grammy.Â
His hit single, âWatcha Gonna Do With a Cowboy,â a duet with Garth Brooks, was certified gold and hit the top 10 nationally.Â
Music Is Forever
Listening to his dadâs work is great, LeDoux added. And heâs already listened to the âOne Hand in the Rigginââ duet he recorded with his dad at least 255 times now.Â
âI still get goosebumps,â he said. âThatâs the great thing about recorded music, itâll be around forever.â
LeDoux feels those who have heard his dadâs music before wonât need any explanation. But for those who are just discovering it, he thinks what theyâll find is just inspiration for living life well.
âThereâs nothing negative at all in his music,â LeDoux said. âEverything is just uplifting. And most everything he sang about was true. Even if it was a song he didnât write himself, he made it his own. He was just a salt of the earth, great guy.â
LeDouxâs own work is in the same vein, and heâs continuing to produce it at his own pace.
That might be slower than other artists who produce an album or so a year, but LeDoux is busy living a full life, one that includes ranch life.
That brings depth and variety to his work, he believes. But that also means it takes a little longer to finish an album.
âI didnât really expect this to become what itâs become,â he said. âI thought maybe Iâd just make an album and play a few shows. But people keep asking us to come back.â
Renée Jean can be reached at renee@cowboystatedaily.com.