Cheyenne Frontier Days led to Margaret Lovatoâs first job when she was just 13 years old.
Lovato still has that job now, almost 50 years later. Sheâs the Diamond Horseshoe Cafeâs longest-serving employee, outliving several of the 70-year-old restaurantâs owners.
âMy mom and dad came here to eat one day, and it was like Frontier Days and there was no help,â Lovato told Cowboy State Daily. âArlen and Bertha Wilson owned it then, and so my mom says, âI have a 13-year-old daughter, do you need help?ââ
Lovato, at the time, had been babysitting three boys since she was 10 years old, and their shenanigans were making her crazy.
âYou know how three boys can be right?â she said. âIâm like, âI donât want to do this anymore.ââ
So, when she heard there was a job bussing tables, she was all for giving it a try.
What she recalls from that first day on the job was just how busy the little diner was.
âBack then, there was no Dell Range yet, and this place was really hopping,â she said. âIt was crazy. And a lot of times, the diner didnât close until 9 oâclock.â
Lovato would work until closing, then go home to do her schoolwork before bed.Â
She Knows Everyone
Before too long, Lovato was doing such a good job, the owners decided to try her out as a cashier.
âI was a cashier for years,â Lovato said.Â
Another labor crunch, though, propelled her into a waitressing job. At first, she wasnât sure she could handle it, and she was a bit nervous. But before long, she was bantering back and forth with customers like sheâd known them all her life.
âThatâs the thing I like best about working here,â she admitted. âItâs all the cool people you meet. Iâve met people from China and Ireland. And itâs like, âOh, your accent, where are you from?â Then we start talking and some of them come back year after year.â
Movers And Shakers
But Lovato doesnât just meet people who come from far away. Sheâs also met many of the movers and shakers of Wyoming, among them current and former lawmakers like Stan Blake and Jim Byrd.
What Byrd recalls loving about Lovato is her spunky attitude, served alongside plates piled high with stick-to-your-ribs comfort food.Â
âItâs the kind of food your grandma makes,â Byrd said. âAnd sheâs just got that good kind of snarkiness to go with it. She likes to poke fun. She loves a good joke. Her whole thing is just about bringing a smile to your face. And it didnât matter if youâre in a three-piece suit or look like you slept under a bridge. She treated everyone with the same respect.â
When Byrd was a lawmaker, he often ate at the Diamond Horseshoe Cafe with other colleagues, and he would also bring mayoral or other candidates with him.
âWeâd trade barbs back and forth,â Byrd said.
Lovato always had a great comeback, and often razzed them about âbeing in charge, but not getting anything done.â
It made the meal fun, Byrd said.
âItâs almost like youâre not in a restaurant at all,â Byrd said. âItâs more like youâre a guest, going to someoneâs house for dinner. If you go to the Diamond Horseshoe and you donât enjoy your meal, thereâs something wrong with you.â
Serious When It Mattered
Lovato had a light touch when it came to more serious matters, too, though, and just the right amount of discretion. Â
âThere was this older guy who used to come in there, and he had some health problems,â Byrd said. âAnd he always wanted to sit down and talk with me about politics, but he didnât really understand how politics worked.â
After learning the man lost the right to vote because of something heâd done as a young man, Byrd brought a bill that would allow felons who have completed their sentences to regain their voting rights.Â
âHe was one of the reasons I brought that bill,â Byrd said. âSo I knew this guy very well, but what I didnât know, and I accidentally ran across one day, is he often didnât have enough money to pay his tab.â
Lovato, realizing the manâs situation, just quietly kept the manâs tab running.
âThey werenât big grandiose meals, but he would get something,â Byrd said. âAnd heâd come in and pay on it every so often, when he had some money.âÂ
Learning of this, Byrd asked what the tab was, and, hearing that it was just $30, he picked it up himself now and then.
âThat was always just between Margaret and I,â Byrd said. âAnd I know there were others who she ran a tab for, and that goes back to old-school restaurants.â
Itâs something he hopes other younger coworkers at the restaurant are taking notes on, and he believes itâs all part of what makes the restaurant such a gem.
Cheyenneâs Cheers
Old-school is what customers new and old appreciate about Lovato.Â
âWe call this place Cheyenneâs Cheers,â Art Proctor said. âItâs the place where everyone knows your name.â
He and his wife Cyndy have been coming to the Diamond Horseshoe Cafe for the last four years, but say that it feels like theyâve known Lovato much longer than that.Â
âShe will help anyone regardless of who you are,â Cyndy said. âSheâs got the warmest heart Iâve ever seen.â
Lovato said she has no definite plans to retire any time soon but added that her parents are getting up there in age, and she does think about taking a hiatus at least, to spend more time with them.
âThis has been convenient for me to take care of them,â she said. âI can go straight there after I get off work.â
Lovato said sheâd probably come back to the restaurant, assuming her own health is still good at some point.
âItâs been a lot of fun,â Lovato said, smiling. âEvery day, every customer who comes in, theyâre like, âYouâre still here?â And Iâm like, âYouâre still coming in like this?ââ
The bantering back and forth with her customers and fellow employees makes the time pass quickly and makes the job a blast.Â
Renée Jean can be reached at renee@cowboystatedaily.com.