When Rawlins, Wyoming, man Phil Bollingerâs car was stolen last week during a family trip to Denver, he just shrugged and figured heâs still happy to be alive.
The theft happened about six weeks after Bollinger, 55, crashed his 1800 Kawasaki motorcycle and nearly died. After dodging some deer on that ride Oct. 16, he went off state Highway 70 near Encampment, hit a rock and was thrown head-first into a culvert.Â
Trapped underneath the motorcycle, when storm clouds gathered overhead two hours later, Bollinger resigned himself to the thought of death.
Though pinned under his ride, Bollinger was able to free both legs. The left one hurt too badly to move, but the right one would rise. So Bollinger did the only thing he could â he waved his boot in the air every time he heard a vehicle coming down the road. His leg grew so weary he braced it in the air with his hands.
After two hours, hunters Jason and Ben Koperski noticed the square-toed, brown boot waving in the air and stopped. The men comforted Bollinger and walked to a cellphone service patch to call emergency services.
An ambulance took Bollinger to a helicopter, which then flew him from Carbon County to Fort Collins, Colorado. As Bollinger flew away, the helicopter rattled. The clouds unleashed at least an hour of hard rain.
That culvert was âwashed outâ that day, Bollinger said.
Bollingerâs broken rib gouged into a vital artery while he was in the hospital, he said. Fortunately, a surgeon was in and was able to save Bollinger against all odds.
Bollinger went into surgery unconscious and intubated. The surgeon split open his body from his armpit to his back, pried his ribs apart and applied a skin graft to his severed artery, he said.
Bollinger required 30 units of blood product.
He woke dulled by morphine, but hallucinating from ketamine.
âI woke up from a dream that there was another lady in the room telling me I had to go with her, and I didnât recognize her,â he said. âShe told me she was my wife, and I had to go with her, âbody or not.â I distinctly remember that.â
He jolted awake and saw a nurse in his room and demanded to see his wife, Susan.
His wife, sleepy on the couch, came to his side, and Bollinger quizzed her on the details of their life â his favorite car ('72 Corvette) and their anniversary date â to make sure she was real.
She answered his questions and promised not to leave his side, even though sheâd had a brain infection and had been hospitalized just a couple weeks earlier.
Bollinger recalled the incident tearfully. Â Â
âIâm Out Of Hereâ
He remained in a Fort Collins trauma hospital for three weeks, then returned to his Rawlins home in early November. The hospital wanted to keep him another three weeks, but he refused to stay.
âIâve already shown you I can walk and talk â Iâm out of here,â Bollinger told Cowboy State Daily.
Bollinger is a father to six children, including four adopted. Four of his kids are adults, but the two little ones are only 5 and 7.Â
Now Bollinger is at about â50%â healed, he said. His shoulders are swollen, and he may require shoulder surgery. His collapsed lung is functioning again, though. The skin graft to his severed artery is holding.
And most importantly for Bollinger, 21 family members gathered around him for a huge Thanksgiving celebration last week.
But The Car Was Destroyed
The Monday before Thanksgiving, the Bollingers drove to Denver to pick up their daughter from the airport. Her plane was set to land Tuesday.
The family spent the night in Denver, and someone stole their 2013 GMC Acadia, said Bollinger.
Police were able to recover the vehicle, and the family saved their personal items from it, but the car was ruined, he added.
âNever thought that would happen,â said Bollinger. âWe kind of saw that like, after everything else weâve been through, this ainât shit.â
Bollinger had to wait for his son to drive over in an extra car. The delay set the familyâs Thanksgiving preparation behind by a day, and they didnât reach home until Wednesday night.
They made a snap decision to have Thanksgiving at Bollingerâs mother-in-lawâs house in Rawlins instead of his own, since they werenât ready to host the feast.
âWhich was fine. Itâs smaller, so we were all just closer together,â he said with a chuckle.Â
Wouldnât Have Met Them
Bollingerâs new outlook on life is positive and awe-filled. Heâs bonded with Ben Koperski and Benâs son, Jason, the hunters who came to his rescue after his crash.
To Bollinger, the pair are new family members. Heâs so grateful for them, he spoke as though meeting them made the crash worth enduring.
âHad I just gone home (instead of an alternate route to avoid high winds) I wouldnât have gotten in the accident,â said Bollinger. âBut then I wouldnât have met Ben and James either.â
The pair spotted Bollingerâs boot in the air that day and stopped, even after more than a dozen cars passed by without noticing.
Jason had done search and rescue missions for seven years with the U.S. Coast Guard and immediately went into rescue mode. They couldnât get the motorcycle off Bollingerâs leg but kept him warm and alert while roving for service to call 911 and reach the Carbon County Sheriffâs Office.Â
The Koperskis kept Bollingerâs mind active by joking with him. They teased him about taking a nap in the culvert.
Their jokes havenât stopped since, Bollinger said.
He noted that heâs not much of a church-going man. But he believes in God, and he believes God sent the Koperskis to him at the right moment.Â
Haunted
Though thrilled at life, Bollinger is still haunted by the experience. He becomes emotional when remembering his darkest moments in the hospital. He marvels at what may have happened if a surgeon hadnât been right next to him when his artery was gouged.
His yellow cruiser sits unused, but barely damaged. Itâs got a bent fender, a bent footrest.
Heâs hoping to ride it again someday.
Bollingerâs daughter, who lives in North Dakota, saw news of a fatal motorcycle crash in her town soon after Bollingerâs non-fatal crash happened. She, too, was haunted by what may have happened to her dad.
âMy daughter just about broke down from it,â he said of that crash. âSo itâs hard for her.â
Bollinger hasnât described his trials in great detail to his mother, who is on year 12 of what was predicted to be a decade to live after surviving breast cancer.
âI didnât want to stress her, didnât want her to worry about it,â he said.
His other children are doing well. The two little children were just happy when he came home.
âThey just give me hugs all the time,â said Bollinger. âThey tell me theyâre glad Iâm better and getting better.â
The medical bills are massive, Bollinger said. Heâs working âa little bitâ through his business, Pembroke Training Solutions. His wife is back to work at the local hospital.
âI mean, we have financial problems right now, which we know weâll get taken care of â which we always have,â he said. âWith adopting the kids and stuff, weâve always made it happen.â
Material things are the furthest from his line of focus these days, said Bollinger.
âThe past is the past,â he said. âThe future can be outstanding and wonderful, and we just have to go forward no matter what we go through.â
Clair McFarland can be reached at clair@cowboystatedaily.com.